WHORE BY DEFAULT - a story of love, lust, DEATH, sex, life...real life TM

Written 24 years ago. Reborn for the generation that doesn't filter.
Before swiping, ghosting, and situationships had names, Whore by Default: Book Second GOD DIED at the SPA was written in the early 2000s, when online dating was still dial-up and heartbreak came with fewer emojis. Now updated for 2025, this memoir returns with sharper edges, deeper truths, and zero filters. It's the story of a single woman who thought she was "all in," only to realize she was always the girl in the middle. She wasn't trying to be reckless. She was trying to be chosen. But somewhere between the seductions and the seriously bad decisions, Rossana realized she was always the placeholder, never the priority.

From love triangle dramas to lust-fueled detours, this funny dating memoir chronicles a series of WTF moments, emotional entanglements, naked mistakes, and bedroom blunders that are as cringe-worthy as they are cathartic. Rossana keeps stumbling and searching-for love, for lust, and for herself. With many romantic misadventures to lessons in love, it's a story of self-discovery told with brutal honesty and unapologetic humor. It's raw, raunchy, and real.

If you've ever dated the wrong guy (or five), have been the rebound, or the one who stayed too long, questioned your sanity, or laughed through the tears, this book will make you lolololol, question, and maybe even heal.

Perfect for fans of dating disasters, love triangle memoirs, and "real" lessons in love and life!