Must Learn, Boy!

An unforgettable journey across continents and cultures - rich in history, humanity, and hard-won wisdom.

From the bustling streets of colonial Rhodesia to the rugged African bush and finally the sunny suburbs of Australia, Must Learn, Boy! is a sweeping memoir of resilience, identity and transformation. Born to Chinese parents in a racially divided British colony, Kang navigates a childhood of cultural contradictions, strict segregation laws, and the warmth of multicultural friendships.

As the Rhodesian Bush War erupts, Kang is thrust into a world of military conscription, landmine-laden roads, and moral dilemmas that challenge his sense of belonging. Through vivid storytelling, he recounts narrow escapes, haunting encounters, and the camaraderie forged in the crucible of conflict.

Beyond the battlefield, this deeply personal narrative explores themes of family, faith, forgiveness, and the enduring quest for home. From wondering what he was going to do with his life and making the decision to leave Zimbabwe to the joys and trials of building a new life in Australia, Kang's story is both a powerful historical lens and a heartfelt testament to courage and hope.