Finding Your More

Finding Your More

When you feel trapped and know you are destined for more - this is where the journey begins

There is something nobody says out loud when everything seems fine from the outside.
That you are tired. Exhausted. Maybe lost. Not from anything specific - from pretending that everything is okay, that this is enough. You feel destined for something more, but that something is hard to see clearly."

After an incident that nearly cost him his life, Fernando Alfonso - a technology executive with twenty years at some of the world's largest companies - found himself alone, at four in the morning, face to face with a question he had been avoiding for years:
Who am I living this life for?
What followed wasn't a revelation. It was a fall. A separation. Months of silence and darkness in a city that suddenly felt empty. And the voice of his seven-year-old son, crying and refusing to let go, saying three words that changed everything:
Don't go.
This book is for those who give their life, their time, their energy and their mind to their work, and quietly feel they are meant for something more. For those who confuse anxiety with ambition. For those who want to change, but are afraid. For those who know, in that place where you cannot lie to yourself, that something more is waiting for them.
Your More exists. You already have it. You just have to stop running long enough to see it.

Fernando Alfonso
Technology industry executive for nearly 20 years at companies including Oracle, IBM, Red Hat, and VMware. He left it all to cross a continent and be present in the only life that truly mattered. Today he lives in California, where he coaches padel, spends most of his day with his three children, and when he drives with his four-year-old daughter, the two of them dance to whatever is playing.