Break the Chains

THE ABUSE ENDS WITH ME.

At three years old, Jake learned that monsters were real. By six, he learned that "no" meant nothing. By fourteen, running was the only prayer he had left.

From the foster care system to God's house turned hell, from childhood terror to adult survival, Jake's story is one that 1 in 6 men know but rarely see in print-the brutal reality of male childhood sexual abuse and the decades-long fight to break free.

But this isn't just another trauma memoir. This is the story of a father who looked at his children and made a vow: the blood we don't pass down.

In unflinching detail, Jake chronicles the nightmare years of abuse, the patterns that followed him into adulthood, and the moment everything changed: becoming a father. This is the daily work of breaking generational trauma-no redemption porn, no easy answers, just the messy truth of building peace one day at a time.

From therapy sessions to theme parks, from rideshare grind to five acres in Florida, from dissociation to determination-and finally, to the 2026 courtroom testimony so traumatic the proceedings were stayed.

This is not a story about overcoming. This is a story about not quitting.

For readers who loved the brutal honesty of Jennette McCurdy's I'm Glad My Mom Died, the raw survival of Dave Pelzer's A Child Called "It", and the dark humor of Paul Scheer's Joyful Recollections of Trauma-BREAK THE CHAINS is the male survivor memoir the world needs right now.

CONTENT WARNING: This memoir contains detailed descriptions of childhood sexual abuse, physical and emotional abuse, religious trauma, and PTSD. Crisis resources included.