Benben is At Ease

This beautifully illustrated picture book is about the feeling of being at ease.

How does Benben feel - and what is that feeling called?

Where does it come from...? And the important question: what now?

Read all about it in Benben is At Ease!

Benben is At Ease is a full-color picture book, sized 8 x 8 inches.

Pompom and The Circle of Feelings is a series about emotions and feelings.

Can you already recognize what you're feeling?

Where does it come from - and how do you handle it?

Helping children understand what feelings are and how to recognize their emotions is essential for their emotional development.

Benben possesses a contemplative, philosophical nature that allows him to find contentment in the present moment. He approaches life with a quiet mindfulness that others sometimes mistake for aloofness. While generally even-tempered, he can become stubborn when his routines are disrupted. He tends to observe rather than participate, processing the world through careful reflection rather than immediate reaction.

MOTIVATIONS: Benben is motivated by a desire for inner peace and simplicity. He seeks to understand himself and his place in the world without becoming entangled in unnecessary complications. Food and other sensory experiences ground him and provide touchstones of pleasure. He's driven more by curiosity about life's small wonders than by ambition or external validation.

INTERNAL CONFLICT: Despite his outward tranquility, Benben struggles with whether his contentment is genuine wisdom or merely avoidance of deeper engagement. He questions if his equilibrium comes at the cost of truly connecting with others or experiencing life's full emotional spectrum. Part of him fears that his calm acceptance might actually be a defense mechanism against past pain or future uncertainty.

STRENGTHS: Benben excels at emotional self-regulation and finding beauty in ordinary moments. His patience and ability to remain centered during chaos make him a stabilizing presence. He possesses keen observational skills and an intuitive understanding of patterns and rhythms in daily life. His genuine appreciation for simple pleasures allows him to find satisfaction where others might see monotony.

CHARACTER ARC: Benben's journey involves learning that true peace comes not from avoiding life's complexities but from engaging with them mindfully. As events challenge his equilibrium, he gradually discovers the difference between detachment and genuine acceptance. His growth lies in finding ways to maintain his centeredness while forming deeper connections and taking meaningful action when needed.