IVY, Refusing to Hate

A moving and essential narrative of survival, injustice, and the human spirit told through one woman's forgotten story.';She was punished for being neglected. She survived to be heard.'';From stolen childhood to stolen voice Ivy's story will break and lift your heart.'In 1945, 12-year-old Ivy Getchell was cast into the grim confines of Parramatta Girls Training School, deemed a victim of ';neglect and moral danger.' Stripped of her dignity and longing for her stolen mother's locket, Ivy's only hope was escape through fostering.What followed was a relentless cycle of institutionalisation and betrayal. From a brief respite at Thornleigh, where kindness and a love for the violin bloomed, to a brutal foster placement culminating in an attempted rape and a return to Parramatta as a ';criminal.' Even amidst humiliation and cruelty, Ivy found strength, rising to school captain and daring to seek freedom in marriage only to be trapped in another cycle of abuse and endure the devastating loss of her children.This isn't a story of suffering it's proof that love can outlast even the darkest cruelty. Fuelled by the memory of her parents' affection, Ivy's spirit, though scarred, learned to flourish. She found freedom from abuse and the courage to reclaim her voice.Decades later, the Forgotten Australians Inquiry and a Royal Commission offered a platform for Ivy to share her truth, confronting the stigma she carried for so long. Her voice, like thousands of others, had been silenced for too long.This is Ivy's story a love story of enduring resilience, a searing indictment of systemic failures, and a call to action for a future where no child is forgotten.';In a world that sought to break her, Ivy refused to hate, holding onto dignity and love as her greatest acts of resistance.'From the Winner of the 2024 Varuna Fellowship and 2021 Lane Cove Literary Award.